Hi Pam,
What cigars to send and how to send them has long been a matter of discussion but the threads are old and not visible under default forum settings. At the bottom of the category page (CIGARS), click on 'More Options' then under Filter select 'Show All.' This will allow you to see all the previous discussions.
I get recommendations from people I work with, read the ratings and descriptions, and occasionally wander the local cigar shop searching for something that feels and smells just right. However, cigar preference varies greatly from person to person. If you don't know what your SFC likes, I would send a nice sampler.
Because cigars experience *shipping shock* I don't send them directly from the vendor to my contacts if I want them to be able to just open package and start smoking. I have everything shipped to me then package them with a humidifier packet in double ziplock bags. I only ship them with things that will neither pick up nor pass on odors - cigar accessories, nice razor blades, stuff like that.
jo