I've sent Tom and guys six or so packages over the last few months - plus two larger ones with school supplies. However, just today I joined Tom's Myspace page. Before this I got all my info from his anysoldier spot. To me this is high tech so I may stumble a little. I still haven't figured out how to get to "his" messages, but there is always another day.
One of Tom's early messages said that they had to live off the economy, but due to drought and famine there was little of that, and he and his guys were only resupplied every 2-3 weeks. It sounded like they needed real food rather than just snacks. Like you, I know they have a "stove," but do not know if that includes some type of oven. Some of the things I send: Campbell's chunky soup (or equivalent), Knorr Cajun Sides (or different brands of envelopes of dry products that only require water to reconstitute). I send three of the same variety at a time along with can(s) of tuna or chicken to make it closer to a healthy meal containing protein. Folger's coffee singles, Swiss Miss hot chocolate, variety pack cereal (4 varieties and a total of ten packets per box). Plus many of the things already mentioned.
I save the the daily comic and 'Dear Abbey' pages. They are not only something to read, but also good for cushioning items. AA and AAA batteries. You might try establishing a good relation with a local used book store - not necessarily a big chain though they might work. Once I explained that I wanted to send them to military they let me go through their "discard" box of paperback books that people bring in to trade but the store can't use but will discard for people. I typically pick up 6-8 books at a time that way, plus any that I buy that are westerns, mysteries, or something I think they might enjoy.
Crossword and sudoku puzzle books, tooth paste and occasional new tooth brushes (w/case to keep out sand/dirt). Body wash (Dollar Tree carries 12 oz White Rain for Men for $1). Guys seem to prefer body wash (over bars of soap that get "slimy" and are more difficult to manage in ruck sacks). White athletic socks (after finally getting a shower and some down time). Gold Bond body powder (I don't know if the large bottle packaged the very same except w/o the words "Gold Bond" available to Dollar Tree is just as good). Plenty of lip balm and skin lotion to counteract dry skin.
For the kids: gums and rolls of lifesavers. I recently bought a sack of old fashioned pink bubble gum to send. Wish I could see the sight of the guys teaching African kids how to blow bubbles! I recently sent two good sized packages of school supplies since Tom said school was starting and the kids did not have supplies. Almost everything I purchased was from Dollar Tree. However, from WalMart I was able to get an inexpensive sharpener that is bolted to the wall so the teacher can control that and the kids don't sharpen their pencils down to a knub just because they are fascinated. I also included some flash cards, colored constructiion paper and items to help the teacher.
I've had trouble finding solid 'bars' of laundry soap. "All" brand offers 2 oz bottles that is supposed to be enough for two loads. Any suggestions?
Things to send are limited only by our imagination. I find I can hardly go by a 'trial/travel' isle or discount store w/o checking for possibilities.
Jackie