Cathi,
I can't say anything that hasn't been said, but I can't read this and not offer my appreciation, respect, and condolences, either. Your sons both seem to "get it" where their service is concerned, and that is a reflection on their parents and how they were raised. Thank you for taking us on this journey with you, and for your support, even in your time of grief. Like so many others on here, I hope you will contact me if you ever need anything.
God Bless.
Kevin