Mags,
I just wonder if that happened with a lot of people who registered shortly before Christmas. You know, lots of people wanted to send Christmas cards and things like that at the holidays but haven't done very much since.
I run into a lot of contacts I had from that time no longer being on here. I guess they stop doing their updates. When they aren't here, I'm not sure about sending them anything else...and usually don't...although I have written a few "Where are you? Are you still there?" letters in hopes of initiating contact again.
To answer his "z" question, I often START with the z's because I'm inclined to request the first two that grab my heart only to discover that they ALL grab my heart. Like everyone on these forums, I wish I could help all of these contacts!!
Reta