I am also sending gently used items. I think it's fine to do so as long as they are in good condition, good enough that you would use it. All of mine have been freshly washed and are very clean. I'm sending a bunch of wool sweaters we don't wear any more, a down jacket with a hood my son outgrew, a down vest I don't use, hats, etc. whatever I can find. I figure, if it's good enough for me, or my family, to wear without embarrassment, it's good enough to give to another family to wear. I'd never give anything dirty, stained, torn or worn looking. But, you'd be surprised how many do give such awful things to charities that give clothing to those in need. When I collected clothes for Katrina victims I was astonished by some of the terrible things people gave me. Surprisingly nice looking people, too. I can not imagine what they were thinking. Nobody needs clothes with stains and holes, or that smell like urine, or are musty, yet in many cases that's what I got. I ended up taking eleven pickup truck loads of it to the dump. My mother helps at our local food pantry which also gives out clothing and she's told me for years about the revolting bags of dirty donated clothes she's had to go through. Such stuff should be thrown out, never donated.